We've all seen it: the rom-com where the charming love interest turns out to be… not who they initially seemed. Sometimes it's a secret prince, other times a centuries-old vampire. But the trope we're dissecting today is the 'The Guy She Was Interested In Wasn't a Guy' twist – often involving a character who identifies as non-binary, trans, or is otherwise presenting differently than the protagonist initially perceives.
Why is this trope so prevalent? It often serves as a plot device to introduce the protagonist (and the audience) to different perspectives on gender and identity. When handled well, it can be enlightening and promote empathy. However, it can also fall into harmful stereotypes if not approached with sensitivity and respect.
Ultimately, the effectiveness of this trope hinges on representation. Is the non-cis character a fully realized individual, or merely a plot point to further the protagonist's journey of self-discovery? A nuanced portrayal can be powerful, while a clumsy one can reinforce harmful misconceptions. What are your favorite (or least favorite) examples of this trope done right (or wrong)?
